Introduction: Parents in the past always thought that children were lively, lovely and carefree. For those negative emotions such as depression, anxiety, sadness, etc., almost all had nothing to do with children. However, as the society continues to pay attention to the psychology of children and adolescents, and we can often see news of many children committing suicide due to mental illness.
More and more children with mild or severe depression are seen by parents, and they have become the objects of everyone's attention and care. However, in reality, many people still don't know much about depression, a mental illness. It is almost difficult for people who are not sick to understand the reality of people with depression, and some people may even think that they are just overly hypocritical.
Some time ago, a parent suggested that his child was diagnosed with depression, but his daily behavior did not show much clues, that is, he always couldn't get up when he got up in the morning. Because children are in school, the difficulty of getting up in the morning makes parents very anxious, because children are often late for this reason.
Children with depression do not show too much psychological problems, but have difficulty getting up in the morning. What is the reason for this? Today, let’s take a look at some issues about depression.
1. The biggest characteristic of depression is: a sense of powerlessness.
Many people find it difficult to understand the inner world of people with depression. In fact, their greatest psychological feature is a sense of powerlessness. They lose their interest in everything in life. The body is exhausted and weak, and there is no emotional motivation in the heart. Sometimes even if a glass of water is placed next to my bed, I don't want to reach out for water when I am thirsty.
And this kind of powerlessness can cause their living conditions to become very bad. What we usually think is very simple and easy, such as eating, drinking, etc., will become extremely difficult for people with depression. But in order to maintain a normal life, they must work hard to do them well. Therefore, the life of people with depression may seem easy, but in fact they are extremely exhausted.
This kind of life full of powerlessness and exhaustion will cause depression patients to derive many negative emotional states. For example, anxiety, loss, bad temper, crying and weeping, etc., are also accompanied by insomnia in daily life, which requires medication to assist in normal sleep and maintain a normal emotional state.
Therefore, children with depression may have anxiety and insomnia at night, and it is inevitable that they will have difficulty getting up in the morning, and their own physical and psychological weakness will also aggravate this problem. This is the result of the objective status quo and personal subjective thoughts. Only when the depression situation improves, the problem can be solved.
2. Children with depression need to be tolerated and cared for.
Many people with depression often show the same state as ordinary people. In the eyes of outsiders, they can still live normally. In fact, their inner world may have been very dim, and the little things in life may destroy the motivation that they finally build. . And our biggest evaluation of them turned out to be: overly hypocritical.
When parents face their children suffering from depression, maybe we can’t fully understand their children’s mood and feel the same. Moreover, it is very difficult to understand a person's current situation, so when facing a child with depression, we might as well be more tolerant and genuinely caring.
Tolerance is to give maximum tolerance to the abnormal emotional states that children usually show, so that children can express and release their emotions with confidence. Able to give correct guidance when the child is depressed or high-pitched.
Caring, caring more about the children's personal situation and emotional state, giving them more self-space, helping the children more in their lives, so that they can live a little more effortlessly.
Important note: The most important feature of children with depression is the sense of powerlessness. They can hardly handle anything in life. Coupled with the influence of many negative emotions and insomnia, difficulty getting up has become a common manifestation. Faced with children with depression, parents should give them more tolerance and care.
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